While reading this thread, something occurred to me. At least two of the gals here posted thoughts regarding age.
So - it seems that gals - and also possibly guys - look at age as a factor in deciding whether they want to have a relationship with one another.
I find that this is somewhat discriminatory. It also shows a slight immaturity which, well, better discovered up front than later on.
I have two great friends locally who are married (well, not officially but they have lived together for over 12 or so years, and have two children). Joe is 48 (or so), and Sheri is 30 (or so).
These are the sweetest people I know. They work together very harmoniously - in whatever they do. They even cook in the kitchen together. Something that I have not seen before (ok, I've lived a sheltered life).
Joe doesnt look his age - in fact, it's probably Sheri that helps keep him young -grin-.
I personally, do not go looking for a specific age when I talk to folks I just get to know them. If, later I find out their age I certainly dont say, "Oh, too bad. You're too young (or old) for me." and then walk away.
I do know of an instance of a guy who did this to a very nice lady. I still think he was/is a jerk. He also hurt - very deeply - the feelings of the gal who he spoke those words to. (It also caused this gal to question her self-worth - and she is thinking right now that she is unattractive, and not worth much, which is not true.)
But - thats just me, and my .02 worth.
Regards,
Jim TX
Edited by - Jim_TX on 26 July 2002 11:23:55