Well, I've heard this sentiment more than a few times. Women only like bad boys...blah blah blah. Women don't go for nice guys... blah blah blah. They only like guys who treat them bad...etc.. And these sorts of conversations are inevitably followed by the same guy going on and on about what a "nice guy" he is. Of course, by this point I'm usually rolling my eyes in disgust.
In the past few years I've worked with an unusually high number of youngish men. It's almost comical how the ones who are quickest to bemoan the way women prefer bad boys are usually the biggest creeps of them all. They either bore their women out the door with all the stories of unfair life is for good catches like he happens to be (surprise!) or they act like complete idiots to some poor chickerooni only to move on to some poor new victim and beguile her with tales of what a good guy he is. "I'm such a nice guy..." Uh uh. Where do these guys get these scripts anyway? They've all got the same lines!
You'd think the theory would be fairly easy to disprove when these Mr. Nice Guy types treat a girl badly and she doesn't come running after him. But noooooooo, somehow the theory still stands despite the fact that Mr. Nice guy played the bad boy and he STILL didn't get the girl! So they continue to moan about it despite shattering a few fine ladies along the way. what a crock!
Some women like bad boys. Some women don't. Some guys like chickerooni's with big boobs and some guys don't(...mind if she has small boobs as long as she's got a tight ass). Whenever a guy moans about that crap with me I advise him to stop picking the wrong types of women. But then he wouldn't be able to complain anymore, so that's right out.
Ugh! Whatever.
p.s. with no offense to Mr. Moe intended... whenever I hear that "I don't play mind games" thing... I always end up thinking...so you play mind games, huh? In most cases that I've seen it's a case of protesting too much...if you catch my drift. But, I'm sure in some cases it's true (mind you, as a cynic, I had to muster alot of self-restraint to add that last part... but I want to believe, I want to believe!)
And the funny thing is, despite my cynicism, I still get downright surprised when people behave like jerks. Go figure!