This is a gigantic forum.
There are many posters who are forgiving, to the point of excusing criminal behavior that has nothing to do with ex-jw baggage.
There was a guy who nearly beat his girlfriend to death, then posted more inappropriate things on here (like middle school girls who wear sweat pants with words on their butts are 'asking for it'), and he got forgiveness.
Or the people [yes that's plural] who have manipulated one of our favorite matrons into giving them $--again, forgiveness.
There are many posters who are unforgiving, to the point of pettiness and mean-spiritedness. One example I have in mind was a very active poster who had several illnesses, including at least 1 mental illness, which he was open about. After chatting with him every day for years, posters here did not even try to act like human beings towards him. He did something bad after being harassed by dubs, and instead of asking if he needed mental help, they ganged up on him horribly.
What good does it do to have 3000 posters tell you separately, and publicly, that you made a mistake? How about see if he needs help...isn't that what true friends do?
I stopped posting on here for a while because of that. I was [am] really disgusted. Here we are, claiming to be kindred spirits who were bullied by dubs...and we behaved like that.