It is a difficult situation LB and I sympathize with you.
To maintain a relationship with your son you remain an "inactive member" yet in doing so you unwillingly subject yourself to their unannounced visits.
I always found those rude. The unannounced "sheperding" calls. Do you think THEY want someone coming to THEIR door unexpected? Yet they have no problem coming to someone else's home uninvited.
Well, I was inactive before so I know what the visits are like.
Under the pretense of "sheperding" they are just seeing why you have not been attending, and actually in most cases I find them to be rather subtly condescending in statements made too.
Know this though, after I sent in my 35 pg letter to the WTS and the local KH exposing pictures, documents, information, etc on the UN affiliation, blood doctrine changes, organ transplant changes, rape changes, generation doctrine changes, 1975 fiasco, pictures and directions to Russell's gravesite with the WT Pyramid Memorial w/ Cross, print outs of the Pay Attention Book masking pedophilia, and more.. they have not bothered me ONCE.
Hell, they havent even worked in field service on this block!
I sincerely wish the best for you LB. Do what is best for you friend.
It is not religious persecution for an informed person to expose publicly a certain religion as being false, thus allowing persons to see the difference between false religion and true religion.
WT 11/15/1963 page 688 paragraph 3