Even if you agree with another's vision, can you at least admit that the visions are not exactly the same?
Jgnat, I cannot say that I have ever had a vision. So i don't have a point of reference to compare.
I might hear different details on something another hears. (this is more like adding to, rather than taking away from or putting something into conflict) I might also hear something that someone else has not yet heard... and vice versa. Sometimes I might simply hear the truth in something that someone else has heard and shared. Some lessons/teachings we have all heard and all share. I think perhaps sometimes this is how we might recognize one another. That AND the spirit of love and peace and faith among one another... even with differences.
So you are correct, that everything does not have to be exactly the same for us to be brothers/sisters in Christ. Christ does not give conflicting messages though... the conflict would come from a lack of understanding (or lack of hearing... or simply lying) But as Christ said when one of the apostles pointed out that some others were preaching Christ but were not with them... "He who is not against you... is for you." We are obliged to give love to others... and mercy and forgiveness. We are not required to make or even ask anyone to believe US... but rather to point to Christ for Truth and for Life. (Then HE can show and teach what is true.)
On the matter of hearing (as Phizzy brought up), the Spirit of Christ does speak to everyone. I heard Him long before I recognized him, or even knew that the Spirit could speak. Sometimes I hear very clearly... with words, or a reminder of a scripture or event in the bible or elsewhere. Sometimes it is a matter of hearing/feeling/sensing the truth of something heard, or receiving an understanding on something. Like how for instance, Peter did not hesitate when it was revealed to him by God, that 'Jesus' was the Christ. Did he hear a voice (that we would now consider to be our own inner voice) or was it a feeling or a knowing? Whatever the case, Peter also recognized the voice of Christ (my sheep hear my voice) and followed Him. As did the other eleven apostles who heard the call... and followed.(enabled by the Father) As do those who hear Him calling even now. Many people also heard Him calling them out of the wts, and followed Him out.
There are so many false teachers out there, fooling people, who have also fooled us... that we may have a hard time with faith and with trust. So while the written word is not perfect... it can be helpful for people who need to see first (and most of us do), before we learn to walk by faith. If we are at least looking at Christ first and foremost. And if we ask for ears to hear, for the door to be opened, for faith and the Spirit... then the promise is that we will receive such. We need only put faith in Him who is true.
Peace,
tammy