I am writing this because I am so upset about the bickering and fighting that is going on about Oompa. This was an amazing wonderful, peaceful, giving man who never met a strager who is now deceased and you are taking his name and running all over the place with it using it for your own agendas. He is NOT a statistic. He is NOT something to be used in a 'fight' against the damn society. You seriously give apostates a BAD named and I am ashamed of these actions.
I have also had enough of ... how shall I say, ones who act like they know him but thru their words and actions a two year old could see you know nothing of my Oompa and he would have never supported anything you say. You know family he didn't speak to. This was not a bi-polar reaction but a well thought out choice that I fully support. Go ahead and ask them why if you dont know, though I would guess you do. I do. He wanted no part, and rightfully so. How dare they do that to him.
I do know there are most of you that were touched by him and genuinely cared for him and are now floundering at something to do to help yourselves heal at this time, and for you I totally understand, and am sorry. I really wanted to come in and help answer questions and give any direction since I'm right here and able, instead this is what I find. I am sorry that we have to put up with this stupidity when we should be having time to grieve. I have to plan my best friends memorial and it's all I can do right now. His friends and family will be grieving him properly. Dealing with this is an added burdon that is not necessary.
This board reminds me of wild dogs fighing over his body. How dare you. You should be ashmed.
I showed Oompas friends that didn't know about this board links to this site to show how wonderful the outpouring of love was... and instead they were disgusted. What a horrible 'witness' of 'awakened' people there can be.
...OUTLAW