DO YOU WANT A FUNERAL?

clarity

I do not want a funeral.

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I especially do not want anyone standing before my family

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telling them WHO I supposedly ... am!

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I have decided NO funeral. No 5 minutes of fame.

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I am taking the first 3 letters of funeral and planning some FUN!

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Ok .... I know that I can't go .... oh wait I guess I will be there...sort of ..

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just not really very active at all ...

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but I hope every one who comes will have a blast!

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I'm buying all the drinks and goodies of course ... they can just send me the bill!

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Seriously, not in a hall or funeral parlor ... but a beautiful space with great music,

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maybe a theatre or an art gallery or heritage hotel ... and......

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I'd need some cooperation if before I kick the bucket because I would

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just love it if family and friends would enter the building just like this.......

http://phys.org/news167826703.html

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What do you think? How will you plan for your .. umm going away?

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(Ps. I realize that I'm getting buried not married .. well not exactly buried ..)

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clarity of the just can't conform class

clarity

sir82

Well, not today, anyway....

dreamgolfer

yeah, me too, I have a Tee Time tomorrow at 8 am - can't do it today either

james_woods

For what it is worth, neither Ed Dunlap nor his brother Marion had any kind of formal memorial service.

I have decided to take the same course - basically, just one more thing that now seems pointless and silly about religion after the witnesses.

clarity

Hey you guys you are supposed to plan ahead of time

But then you may be kind of young (?)

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I just don't want my jw relatives to have a trumped up jw funeral when I go...

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and all that needs to be in writing! ...while you can still write!

clarity

jgnat

You might be interested in what Celebrants offer. (The site is not nearly as flashy as that great wedding video, though!)

Glander

no, but I would like a nice pyramid.

clarity

Hi James ... it pretty much is pointless isn't it.

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I would have no arrangements at all but ......

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I think 'kids' and family need to come together somehow for support...

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so hope they can have a few laughs and a great dinner.

c

blondie

I have seen that you can't stop family and friends from having a memorial service even if you express your desire not to have one or not to have them included.

Include your wishes for your funeral in your will, no matter your age. Select someone to act as the organizer.

James Brown

I dont want or plan on a funeral.

I grew up in Cleveland Ohio but 30 years ago moved to Florida.

Florida is pretty transcient and there are not a lot of funerals like up north.

I'am pretty sure if I dont plan for, leave money or make arrangements for a funeral

there wont be one.

If you are somebody who is very socially well known, you might have a funeral, or have one for your mate.

If you have lots of family in the area, you might have a funeral.

But if you live a quiet life to yourself there is not much likelyhood of a funeral.

DO YOU WANT A FUNERAL?

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