Okay, N.drew. Even though you recently dropped an eff bomb on me, I will respond.
Your comment is not about how we approach a subject, but a comment on the content of such subject. Now here is the difference. Either Jesus is knocking on doors, or he is not. They cannot both be true.
Now if I say, Jesus did not knock on your door or anyone else's door. You would say he is knocking all the time. You will believe that I am wrong about that, and will not fully respect my position. I will believe that you are wrong, and will be unable to fully respect your position. Because he is either knocking or he is not. Based on what we think is true, we will dismiss the other view.
The difference here, based on the tone of this board, is that I should not in any way insist that Jesus has not knocked on your door---however you can insist any old thing you want, AND demand respect for your idea. It is only my job to convince you that I respect such a notion, which I do not, but I must convince you that such an idea is AOKAY with me, which it will never be. But I need to worry about your feelings, and more importantly, avoid pushing you into an eff bomb dropping tantrum---which will be my own fault---because I didn't say you had a valid point.