tammy,
I find your observation about some Pauline statements to be astute. When I discovered that Paul did not write many letters attributed to him, I also discovered that the ones the Witnesses go to town with, and the ones that make me furious, were never written by Paul. Some letters attributed to Paul are contrary to his known works.
Humans interpret history from their present perspective. It is difficult to understand the mindset of a culture from a different era. Paul wrote primarily to congregations that he established. They had the experience of knowing the authentic Paul. We don't. The statement makes no sense in the context of Paul's celibacy b/c the end time was present. Producing babies when Jesus was arriving any second would be reckless.
Roman culture was full of blood and gore compared to ours, which is not nonviolent. My expectation is that pregnancy would make a woman a larger target. Romans executed, not the Jews.
When I was a young Witness, everything made sense. It was so complex with all the numerology and obscure prophecy that I knew I could never learn enough to truly understand. Rather, the magic at Bethel was nice. Now I question so much. Certainly, obscure statements seemingly not tied to Paul's main themes that he repeats and repeats should be taken with a grain of salt. Perhaps if we had access to Paul, he could explain what he truly meant and his justification for the statement.
Recently, I came across the totally absurd assertion that Paul was a feminist. I laughed so hard. When I finished the book, cross checked with other books on Paul, and actually read the scripture, it is not so absurd a statement. Early Christianity was radical. Our understanding is mired in a patriarchal culture.