How about offering that you've adopted a new way of studying the bible, which includes reading each scripture in context to glean it's full meaning, and finding confirming scriptures. (No one scripture should stand on it's own). I't not hard to read in context. It means reading the verses before and after and asking yourself what the author intended.
The bottom line is she can't know what happens when you die. No-one on earth is allowed to know that.