Okay... I took action. I know some of you will disagree with what I did, but I don't want to be hurtful - I just want this dealt with.
My only real concern is my children and that they see that what their father did was wrong.
So, I called WT Legal. I told them the situation without revealing any personal details.
I told them I've been advised to get a lawyer but that all I want is this situation to be addressed for the sake of the kids.
They said we have to do this 'theocratically'... I told them that isn't really my concern at this point.
Then I thought better of it.
They said to pursue this through the elders. So, I called our old presiding overseer who dealt with the situation when I left my husband.
He is fully aware of the truth of what happened and knows how slimy my ex can be.
I have to say he was really kind on the phone.
He was very concerned over what happened and totally understood why I'm upset and the impact this will have on my children.
He told me he is going to handle things and promised to get back to me.
I assured him that there is nothing malicious on my end - I'm just worried for the kids.
He said an apology was in order. So... I guess we'll see what comes of this.