Jeff I am so sorry, sometimes life just keeps throwing us curve balls..
How long will your daughter be in prison?
My ex son in law was in for 7 years I believe..and he was a major distributor/money launderer in Illinois..
His daughter also thinks he could do no harm, even with his jail time..I have to admit he was a really caring family guy and took very good care of his then family..at the cost of possibly others lives that got mixed up with the drugs he was moving..
how does your wife feel about all of this?
ps..most others I know that didn't marry the "Baby's daddy" usually call them "their significant other"..I think if children are involved The father of my child or grandchild sounds nicer than My baby's daddy.
Snoozy..sending you a big hug for doing the right thing...