NVL, please excuse me if you've already commented on this and I missed it but are you able to reason with the kids and keep their minds open? Are they interested in the prospect of celebrating holidays or have you cracked that egg yet?
Notes from my Judicial Committee (I was DF'ed at the end)
I understood that your post was about the JC and not about your marriage. The marriage is a separate subject. I am glad you posted, and I find it very enlightening exactly how a JC works. I am also fascinated by your information and would very much appreciate it if you would point me in the right direction as to investigating the third heaven.
Since everyone wants to talk about adultery, I will start a thread on that topic. I have my own thoughts on the matter that I'd like to share that have nothing really to do with your situation.
Has there already been a thread on the third heaven?