Definitely getting DF'ed now

by notverylikely 150 Replies latest jw friends

  • notverylikely
    notverylikely

    Came out as an apostate to the wife, came out about the depression, anger at being second fiddle in her life to 9 old guys in Brooklyn, came out about having turned atheist, came out about the indiscrections, the tobacco use, everything.

    Fuck. Me.

  • James_Slash
    James_Slash

    At least you are being honest mate.

    Better than living a lie.

  • notverylikely
    notverylikely

    Kids are what sucks about it. The rest with her I can deal with.

  • LostGeneration
    LostGeneration

    Been there. Done that. Sucks for sure....but you will be better for it in the long run

  • ziddina
    ziddina

    Wow, NotVeryLikely...

    I suppose you reached a point where you couldn't contain the anger and disgust any longer?? Been there, done that...

    Sure hope you don't suffer any harsh repercussions for your honesty...

    Zid

  • notverylikely
    notverylikely

    Zid, define "harsh"...

  • OUTLAW
    OUTLAW

    Have a Beer..

    ............................. ...OUTLAW

  • ziddina
    ziddina

    Urk!!! I hope you DON'T:

    lose your wife - if she loves you and is smart enough to be loyal to you through thick and thin...

    lose your children - split families often mean that the children are frantically indoctrinated by the JW parent when they have the children...

    lose your JW friends - but I suspect that will be a 'given'...

    I haven't read your 'story' - your history. I'll go back and do that...

    Best of good results in this situation...

    Zid

  • notverylikely
    notverylikely

    she said she could probably forgive me if i really honestly tried to get back in and be a good JW, but if i didn't want to teach the kids that way i should leave.

  • notverylikely
    notverylikely

    and i don't have any friends :)

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