I'm not trying to portray myself as high and mighty You're sure doing a good job of it.
(maybe defensive after reading the stuff you and others send me).
Most ex-Christians I've spoken to have lost confidence in God and have abandoned organized religion altogether. What does organized religion have to do with anything? Can I not be a spiritual person on my own? No wait don't answer that, I know what you'll say in all likelyhood.
Their focus is not isolated into a relatively small religious group like JWs. Their objective (in the context of metaphysics) is to keep religion out of government and education and convince believers that God doesn’t exist. Religion should stay out of Govt. and education but I doubt very seriously if any of these Ex Christians as you call them, give two shits whether you or anyone else beleives in anything, much less God.
They sincerely believe this is a real contribution to society. For whatever reason your thinking is consolidated into what you perceive as a cult. Are you an atheist, agnostic or a theist?
I'm like Popeye, I yam what I yam, and what I yam is someone who isn't sure if God exists and really doesn't care.
If I had to give a religion, I would say somewhere between Jedi and Zen or Pure Land Buddhism.
Have a good evening. I'm serious about that. I harbor no ill will towards you.