funny how things change. We were fine for a while and were successfully fading until my husband thought he was being kind to someone by giving out his JWN id. He wasn't aware the elders had accessed his private facebook account and from there joined the board surrepticiously and pulled off all his posts and from him mine.
We had repeated calls to the house and finally were invited to a JC which we refused to attend.
We were cyber stalked and then had the repeated visits and calls to the house. All the time telling us that this unwarranted intrusion was because they loved us. It was not love they were like children big with gossip unable to contain themselves. They did not seem to appreciate that after I had told them we wanted no part of their kangeroo court that they had no need for further contact. They were desperate that I should participate.
I think the worst thing you can do to them is pull the rug out from under them, they want to present the evidence and see you squirm. they want to ask their personal questions, they want you to turn on one another and they want to blackmail you emotionally. If you refuse to participate they just have to talk amongst themselves where is the fun in that?
We didn't attend meetings and cut social contact we were less of a threat to them that way sometimes I wonder why they bother. Now the local community is shocked by their actions and they are getting such bad publicity no one can understand their point of view.