This is hypothetical, but it must happen and I don't recall it being addressed before on JWN
We are DF'd about 2 years now. Our JW friends shunned us.
If one such friend now reaches out to contact us that would surely be a good thing, yes? If they have cheated on their JW partner and become DF'd and are now looking for fellow DF'd former friends to reconnect with, how do we respond?
Are we glad they are out the cult, accept that marital breakdown is complex with many causes and offer them support, sympathy and we are selfishly vindicated to have one less person in the cult?
Or are we upset that they have caused a marriage to break down and leave our sympathies with the wronged partner, although they are JW and still shunning us?
Your input is welcomed.