There is charity, which we should all be encouraged to do and should do. But here is a difference: with socialist programs, you have entitlements. You are entitled to get a free ride on the backs of the rest of us. On the other hand, with charity, you are depending on the kindness of others. No one is entitled to charity from another. Charity is a gift. The giver is empowered by showing kindness anmd mercy(which is the only true power), and the receiver is educated and raised up by the good act of the former. That psychological difference alone, is enormous. The first breeds a dependent class of people. The second does not. Also, I am not so severe as to not be willing to give a hand up to someone temporarily down and out. Even if it is government funded. But a basically functioning person that can work over long periods of time? Get out of my house, loser.
BTS
Well, I can't sleep thinking about this. One thing that I can't get off my mind is the feeling I had when getting help from the government, I felt badly, ashamed, and embarrassed. I felt like a low-life citizen. I was in a horrible predicament and many days I woke up and thought, crap I am still breathing. I had very little skills, lived in a backwoods Arkansas town, pop 2,500. I could not get gainfully employed as no one would hire me with 5 small children to care for, not mentioning again I lived in a very small town. I got creative and started my own business. It was not until I moved out of the state did I have a chance to get sucessful in getting off aid. I don't want anyone to feel like I did in needing that assistance. You have to dip way below the poverty level to get out of it as benefits get cut as you begin to make money. Whether you get it from the government or some charity, it is all a gift isn't it? But, people like you made me feel badly in an already bad situation. The government watched me like a hawk and I hated it. I was humbled beyond belief after coming out of a marriage where money was never a problem. So, I can only imagine how people must feel with illnesses that they cannot pay for and go bankrupt, lose their homes, etc. Thankfully, I remained healthy, who knows what the outcome would have been otherwise. But, I worried about it constantly, giving me some health problems for awhile, until the doctor said if I did not get a handle on it, I would not live to see my 30th birthday.
Not everyone that is "needy" is scum. In your world Burns, when the going gets tough, it feels like you are saying Tough Shit.
I never in my wildest dreams would have thought I would be in a situation as I was. But I found that we can wake up any given day and things just are not the same as the day before.
Whether it comes from charity or the government it should all be thought of as a gift. In the pool of humanity we are all valuable. We all have something to offer. For some it is money, some it's intelligence, others compassion, some heal, some give us beautiful arts and music, some give us a nice homecooked meal and a listening ear. We can only be better if we care for each others basic needs. When that is done MOST people will feel good and be eager and willing to contribute.
This hits me close as I have been in many different situations, married and well taken care of materially, struggling as a single mom needing a handout, working my way out of that situation feeling all proud, independant and resourceful and then finding myself unemployed and uninsured again. Older in an economy that is not doing well. Hoping that everyday no accident comes my way or serious illness, telling my children to just let me die rather than run up huge medical bills. Do you think my kids want to hear something like that?
Anyway, I have said way more than ever anticipated. This is just not about money, it is about people, People that live and breath, that we love and care for, some we don't, but hopefully they have someone that loves them and if they don't, at least some stranger cares enough to see that they are properly looked after as far as their health goes without being made to feel like scum from the bottom of the earth.
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