I try to dress appropriately for my size. When I was a lot smaller I would show skin- I don't do that now b/c I know people laugh at larger women who do that. That is a shame. I know people tend to be very judgmental about larger women- laugh at them and make coarse remarks. Also as you get older you will find out that you have to dress "age appropriately'. We have the fashion police with us always-- women do anyhow.
Actors John Goodman, John Candy ( Uncle Buck) etc..They are huge. ( well were in Candy"s case,he's deceased. ) Women ( very attractive ones i might add) will marry men who look like that but I can seldom find a comment about their weight. ( unless it is health related) Reverse that and i can't think of anyone. ( well Delta Burke but she was not even close to being huge) I had someone I respected a lot once tell me that men do not "lust" after larger women. They will be friends with them but if you want "lust" you have to be slim.
There is such a terrible double standard for men and women. Look at our presidential race. Hillary has to not only say the right stuff but she better look pretty good while she is at it. However, for the guys about all that is expected is they put on a suit and shave.
I think people are ok the way they are, and want them to dress as they please ( as the law allows) . People watching is so interesting. I think it would be boring if we all followed fashion rules .
I could never understand the wts and Fundy Christians obsession with how a person looks or what they did in bed . Outward appearance does not really reflect your heart.
People with inflated egos forcing others to follow " their " rules.
let people "be"