It is very difficult to form opinions based on what is written here. All people know, is what you tell them and a lot of it could be lies.
You can live with a person for many years and find out things about them makes you think that you never knew them at all.
Things written in a state of emotional upheaval, drinking, meds, or just plain having a bad day too, is still not an accurate assesment of personality.
There are too many avenues in cyberspace to hide true self behind or be something else because you have the advantage of acting tough or cool, or mouthy, cause there is no one around to kick your ass!
You can act boldly flirtatious and be a real nerd or stooge and no one would know. In real life people have to see your face and read your eyes and see the real shyness or hurting souls.
It would be nice to know what people think, but is it a true reflection of self? Anyone can act like an intellect by simply googling whatever the hell they want.
There are auras which can be read, and certain styles of writing that can have consistancy, which over time can form a fairly good picture, but does anyone care enough to read that much of someone elses life?
Therefore, I know we can all form quick pictures of what we think we are dealing with and divine character. But how relevant is it?
There are three ways of seeing yourself
1. The way you see yourself-
2. The way others see you
3. The way you really are
The truth about who you are probaly lies somewhere in between these three.
One thing I know, is it is very hard to change what people think about you, regardless of what they actually know. Things are not always what they seem even in real flesh and blood. I try to give folks the benefit of the doubt.