This thread hit me!! I had CFS about 10 years ago. Mine was caused by the Epstein Barr virus, but not all of CFS is caused by the virus. The question is "why did the virus surface?" My doctor told me to eliminate ALL stress and take it easy for about two years. Well, that was unacceptable. I was a regular pioneer, and a busy elder's wife, with a young son at home.
How do you eliminate ALL stress? So I had to assume that the virus was activated by stress. It is the same virus that causes mononucleosis, which I had had when I was about 16, and a secondary case in 1974. Evidently the virus doesn't leave your body, and something triggers it to be activated again.
Afer about three years, we were on our way out of the Borg, and I was into herbs, so I treated mine herbally, and it was gone in a matter of weeks............so, was it the herbs, or was it losing the stress? Hmmm.
I knew dozens of women with the disease though, and when I had success getting rid of mine, I approached one woman, whose husband also had it. She said "nothing works for me", at which time, I realized she didn't want to get well, and was getting something from her illness..........excuse to NOT do anything.......cook, clean, go to meetings, out in service, etc. I learned when I first started in my business, that there are people who really don't want to get well, because being sick gets a "payoff" that they like. If they were to get well, they would have to give up that "payoff".
My Mom has all those environmental allergies, and can't go to the KH because of the odors, and new carpet and upholstery (9 years?), so she listens to all the meetings on the phone link. But, she can go to a new restaurant, or to the store at the drop of hat. No problem. It's an excuse!!! I know that environmental allergies are very real, but they are a symptom of a suppressed immune system. So build that system up........don't just sit at home, being sick, unless you want to be sick!!!
Enuf said. I am OFF of my soapbox now.
Venice: Read your first post again. You made a hilarious typo!!!
Marilyn (a.k.a. Mulan)
"Those who know, don't say, and those who say, don't know."