I have a handful of friends that are still dubs. We have very little social contact, but I do get the occasional invite over or for golf, and they will still come over. I may have mussed that up by not going. My wife has been through so much, and did not ask me to go, or even go for her sake. But by me not going, I am afraid the judgemental people that they are, may not be able to stand to be around me anymore, and that impacts family.
Is it so wrong to compromise myself for just one night? Now I feel selfish. Hell I almost went to the meeting tonight just to show everyone I could have been to memorial, but chose to go to "just" a meeting. I realize it is the judgemental ones that have the problem, but I have probably just further aleinated myself and also my dub family.............oompa
ps...plus I do a lot of biz with dubs, and this could cost me some jack