not exactly jw-free, but d@mn sure jw-lite. ( no family in at all and a few business connections that will surely end because of my fade).....
getting closer to totally uninvolved or connected with any adherents
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When your raised in it,your Screwed..I`ve got more JW`s in my life than you can Imagine..If anyone here dosen`t have JW`s in their life,they can have some of mine!...............OUTLAW
The only active dubs I have any contact with are my parents. My father is an Elder and they go to a Russian language congregation. I do however have other ex-dubs that I keep in contact with, including my roommate who I've known since she was five. I also have a life long friend who I lost contact with after I was DF'd, but found online. She now too is DF'd and has since come out of the closet. It's crazy to see other people that you knew your whole life but have also gone on their own journey after their exodus.
My situation is kind of opposite from most on this board. NONE of our family have ever been JWs, but our son married a gal who was working towards baptism (she is now baptized). Now, the WTS has gotten their claws in our son & he's currently jumping through the hoops.....(sigh)
Lavendar
Yes, I have ties..and it's sad too.
My parents haven't seen their granddaughter since she was about 9 months old...she's 3 now. I have parents/brother and sisters/aunts/uncles/cousins still in.
Mom and Dad - 2
Uncle and Aunt - 2
Cousins and their wives and their children - 18
2 sisters still in (one married) - 3
Niece and nephew - 2
Brother - 1
Grand total = 28 of my family trapped. So almost 1/2 of a congregation!
My parents and siblings are JW's.
75% of my family is sleep, 25% is awake.
Mother, siblings, along with various relatives are all in. I still have friends in that I associate with, and also work in a side business with many many JW's (lucky me). I do have a few relatives who are out and we are very close and have fun.
I'm pretty surrounded...wish it wasn't so. I'm working on it.
Most of our family ties are jw
My mother, my daughter, two granddaughters, my son-in-law and my ex-wife are all still in, which is six. That doesn't count nieces, nephews and ex-in-laws, which by marriage adds another half dozen.
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