I had no idea "Trevors" existed here. I thought it was relatively easy to pinpoint who wasn't for real.
Online Imposters: How Would You Identify Them?
by Scully 102 Replies latest members adult
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SweetBabyCheezits hi,
Thanks for posting this info. It certainly confirms what our instincts tell us ........now if only we would listen!
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Este
Hi Scully, where is Moulder?
I have had such an experience with someone I had a brief relationship with. It was odd, I was more attracted to her online personality than I was to her in person. I guess in your mind you create the expressions of another person while communicating online, and it is not always the way they are expressing themselves. So just like in person, you need to learn about them while chatting or interacting online. If you are states apart and the only time you communicate is by internet, chat, text, or whatever, they might not care about you enough to be honest with you. Why should they, afterall they owe nothing to you since the online friendship could end at any time.
There are times when you actually find someone that cares about other people. These are people that are willing to listen to you and lend advice if they can. If one or the other person begins to ask for monetary assistance you then become suspicious of their motives. An easy way to find out if a person online is lying to you is to have someone else that you know chat with them, or even create a ficticious personality. It is so easy to do and many people find out if their significant other is cheating on them this way.
The best way to interact I feel is in person. People express their thoughts and even pass time by chatting online, so it is a good way to interact with people. The best advice I can give under all circumstances whether you have an in person relationship, or just online is to be cautious as serpents yet innocent as doves. Be wise and never allow another person to decieve you. Always guard your heart, because there exists wicked people out there. As for me, to know me is to love me because I do express my true person on this forum. People might feel I am eccentric, nutty, or whatever but a person will express what is in their heart if they are being honest with you, which is what I do.......
Estephan