My son was almost engaged to his ex-girlfriend who had just moved back to our state. Her divorce from her jerk husband was finalized, but it hadn't been finalized yet with the elders. You know how they have to have PROOF that she was free to remarry. So the girl moved into an apartment across the street from my son. This got the elders upset, and they were constantly doing driveby's trying to catch them at something. Both of them were about 30 years old, but they did their best to live by the rules. They would stand at the window and call each other and wave goodnight.
I couldn't believe it that the elders actually had to get a signed letter from her parents stating that they knew for a fact that her ex-husband was living with another woman before the elders would release her to marry our son.