Outrage after outrage after outrage, in my case. I was banned from both of my brothers weddings and my own graduation and all concerts. When I tried to return, they sat me at the back, and rushed little kids away from me, who thought I was cool. They told me, I couldn't talk with witnesses or worldly people. Who the Christ am I supposed to talk to then? They even moved the Tuesday night bookstudy from our house, because I was there. They were intentionally trying to bust my balls. Another male freind of mine who was poised to become an international model was told to drop it or else. He did, and they sat him at the back of the kingdom hall, get this people, FOR 15YEARS!!!!!!! To this day no one knows what he did wrong.
It got so bad they accused me of sleeping with someone, and I swear to Jesus Christ, I never did. I was working late one day, and needed a ride home, so I asked a sister whom I knew was working nearby, to drive me home. The following week an angry brother came to my house and ripped the doornob off threatening to beat me to a pulp. This guy was built like steel. I told him I swore to all that is holy, I never did anything with her. Years later she admitted lieing htrough her teeth every chance she got, to the elders. She ended up being so bold she slept with this brother who basically disassociated himslef, and she would even answer the door naked. Nothing, not a friggin word was ever said of her behaviour. She was never even reproved. She was related to an elder in the cong.
I had another incident where I was at an assembly and this girl slipped me her number and told me she was interested in me. She asked me to meet her, and I did. She had confessed to already sleeping with 9 guys, so I figured it wouldn't hurt to play around. I did, and before you know it, I was the scumbag, I was the shithead, I was the whore master. I was practically a virgin when I did that. I was called a deceiver by the elders. To this day she has slept around with even more guys and she is still in good standing.Nothing, not a friggin word was ever said to her either. My family backs the elders 150%
Ahhh, that felt better. Thanks for letting me vent folks. I could go on, but I feel better now.