Guys: How do you show your interest?

by serendipity 92 Replies latest social relationships

  • serendipity
    serendipity

    Guys, when you are trying to woo a woman, in the early days before you get physically intimate, how do you show your interest in her?

  • nvrgnbk
    nvrgnbk

    Calls.

    Emails.

    IMs.

    Flowers.

    Dinners.

    Gifts.

    It's kinda hard to mistaken.

    LOL!

    I think men are perhaps, generally speaking of course, a little less subtle about this than are women.

  • bigdreaux
    bigdreaux

    talk to her. get to know her interest, and show a GENUINE interest in them.

    i also straight up let a woman know i'm interested. dancing around the issue is ridiculous.

  • blueviceroy
    blueviceroy

    showing interest in her as a person engage her in conversation get a smile being polite and showing consideration

  • IP_SEC
    IP_SEC
    in the early days

    Days??? alt

  • IP_SEC
    IP_SEC

    ok i was joking. ya like what nvr said.

    You have to act with unmistakable deliberation, otherwise women have a tendency to drop you into the 'just friends' catagory.

  • nvrgnbk
    nvrgnbk
    'just friends'

    Nooooooooooo! That's like Purgatory!

    LMAO!

  • IP_SEC
    IP_SEC
    'just friends'

    Nooooooooooo! That's like Purgatory!

    LMAO!

    Lesson harded learned nvr.

    I've ended up with way many more female 'just friends' than male friends.

    Purgatory? Yes it was until I figured out what I was doing wrong.

  • Nathan Natas
    Nathan Natas

    Pitch a tent in her frontyard?

  • tijkmo
    tijkmo

    i get excited...go over in my head what i'm going to say..start sweating..remind myself that the worse she can do is say no...finish my coffee..get up from my seat..and leave without saying a word..go home and watch tv.

    doesn't every guy??

    "and heaven seldom waits for the reticent" ... hinterland - the irony

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