O.K. Snakes here comes Mr. Flipper of the ( Used to be Smooth with the ladies class). Just kidding! Hey, I was single for 4 to 5 years or so and dating women who I thought I was in love with. One relationship lasted year and a half , but she was not honest, cheated behind my back, rich 30 something lady. Another one was abusive and found out a couple years in she was a substance abuser, I've never done one drug, so that wasn't gonna work. So how did I find the love of my life, Mrs. Flipper? Wev'e been married happily for almost a year now.
I'm sure you've heard of e-harmony .com . It is really different from the other online dating services because it only hooks you up with people who have the same values, likes, dislikes , and standards as yourself. Here is what they do. You pay an initial $35.00 per month fee. They give you an approximately hour or 2 hour multiple choice question and answer session. These questions deal with everything important in life. What are your hobbies? How do you view sexual intimacy? What is your view of money? What is your view of rude, arrogant people? You get the picture, everything you think is important they ask and then some. If a person is serious about finding someone they like who will be attracted to you for being you, then you'll answer the questions honestly. It matches you up on 29 points of similarities in personality, values, ethics, hobbies, likes, dislikes, everything. Pretty cool. I dated a couple women for a couple months, before meeting the one who knocked me off my feet Mrs. Flipper. She was 51 ,I was 47 when we met almost 2 years ago.
I will tell you what I was looking for in a partner was honesty, because I had experienced being treated with dishonestly, had women who would say, "We can't tell you everything about us. A girl has to have some mystery about her. " Yeah, unless that mystery is they are cheating or doing drugs. That ain't fun.So what impressed me was Mrs. Flippers honesty in her write up about herself. She honestly said, " I've had issues with people being unfaithful, and issues losing loved one's in death. But I've overcome it, moved on.! " That's what I was looking for! Someone authentic, real! And it also helped we love the blues, rock music. Same values of showing respect to others. Both love the mountains, are liberal politically, and love animals. All this stuff would take you 2 years to find out, and what if there was something you didn't like? But due to e-harmony it takes away a lot of wasted time hanging in there with somebody who is not up front. E-harmony has a lot of success stories, we are one of them. You wanted suggestions, there you have it. Try it out, you just might get surprised!Believe me, both her and I went through some tough relationships, but are we ever glad we found each other. We are very happy! Peace out, good luck, Snakes, Mr. Flipper of the ( got my dream girl class )!
