Dear Lurker,
I am so happy you decided to introduce yourself!! WELCOME!!! And thank you for the comments about 607. But I cannot take the credit. Truely it is because of this forum and those here who have written deep, very inciteful, factual articles regarding 607 vs 586/587 that helped me. This subject was what got me to have serious questions. When I realized that we were not being taught the "truth", I allowed myself to surf the internet for answers. Thankfully I had the love, and support of my parents to help me out. They told me of all the places I could go for help and needed proof. This was one place they suggested. After being on here about a year or so myself, I finally had enough courage to introduce myself as well. The knowledge that the friends here share is mindblowing. I am so deeply grateful for those who have taken the time to help all of us get all the facts we can, on the subjects we are researching at the time.
As for your situation, I admire you for your love of "truth". It takes a courageous person who is a true lover of Jehovah, Christ Jesus, and truth, to allow themself to question their faith. I firmly believe Jehovah draws each one out when he feels they are strong enough to handle the truth about the "truth". It took me two years before I would even consider listening to my parents who left. I was raised very strong in the faith. If there is hope for me, there is hope for your wife. Until then, think of all the opportunitys you will have to help those in the organization. Maybe subtly (spelling??). Regardless of your position, we are here for you, and you will find you have many who truely understand what you are going through when no one else seems to.
Remember: This is a bend in the road, not the end of the road...your journey.
Sincerely,
Your friend,
Lady Liberty