Dansk, you bring up a funny subject for me.
My grandmother converted from the 7th day Adventist to Jws way back.(early 20's) She was notorious, for being in charge. She was the first woman in North Dakotah to wear pants and made headlines at the time.
My mother her last child, has been just as fiesty, fighting elders as she sees fit. She was also top dog as far as the religion goes in the household I grew up in. She made sure my Father became an elder.
Here is the point, I grew up in a atmosphere of women dominated religious nut cases and they ran the show, there was no denying them.
Myself, and extended female family never had much respect for elders.....but, since my father died they have suddenly become prophets in my mother's mind.
You asked about the JW Male? No such thing where I grew up!