My family seems to want to elevate shunning to an art form.
Not only am I not invited to the usual family weddings etc. but my name was actually omitted on the family group invite to a large family reunion, which really ticked my mother off since a lot of the kids aren't baptized witnesses in our extended family and are a 'wild' bunch where as my life is anything but wild.
My cousins who were closer than my sisters have actually done things like walk past me without saying a word when I was standing next to a critically ill parent's bed in the ICU ward. When I left the room, distraught at the snub especially under the circumstances, they rushed up to my 'worldly' husband to introduce themselves. He wanted to smack them both.
When my grandmother died, whom I was closest to of all the grandkids, I was informed in detail and at length that I would be totally ignored at her Jw funeral. I chose not to go because I refused to honor their meaningless infomercial with my presence especially if they were going to grind salt into my raw wounds by publicly shunning me; hundreds of people all at once. No thank you.
I could go on. Tell me how many examples you need...I can tell you stories about my sister the proper elders wife who dropped my child like a rock even though she's never been baptized because I refused to let her come and get the kid and ignore me while doing so, so she could take her off and
instruct her in the ways of Jehovah brainwash her.
Tell me how many you need. I've got more.