perhaps overly concerned men could invite their solicitor to the bedroom to nagate the nerms of the deal before the deed is done lol.
Or overly concerned women? C'mon, Frog, look at both sides of this -- in a sexual encounter, unless it is rape, there are TWO people involved who have responsibility. The only completely innocent bystander is the child that is the result of the union.
I'm really tired of "man bashing." There are a lot of good, responsible men out there who don't deserve it. I'm married to one of them. Yes, we carry the babies, we deliver the babies, it's our bodies, yadda yadda. Ultimately, though, it's not about the man or the woman -- it's about the child. What is best for that child's upbringing?
I think making both parents accountable is a good thing, though it is sure going to make for a lot more litigation. However, since I work for lawyers, that IS job security!