Getting married in the kingdom hall ( ..."have you had sex?")

by slimboyfat 45 Replies latest jw friends

  • ballistic

    by the way, I got married at the register office.

  • Dr Jekyll
    Dr Jekyll

    I had a real fight with the desire to go out and commit fornication, I fell away when I was 15 and my mum had stopped going so I was under no pressure to behave so I went out and did what all the other 15 yr olds were doing. My freedom lasted only two years though before I got caught and dragged back to the meetings. In that time I had picked up some naughty habits and giving them up was damned hard but I did it.

    I look back now and think about how f*cking stupid I was.

  • M.J.

    Repeat after me, "There is no improper relationship."

  • Dr Jekyll
    Dr Jekyll
    Repeat after me, "There is no improper relationship."

    Ehh what about with Goats ? lol

  • slimboyfat

    It went okay anyway. Looks like it is going ahead.

  • cyberdyne systems 101
    cyberdyne systems 101

    It really makes me sick, all that pressure put upon young people trying to fight off a natural urge. If you dont wed in the hall everyone knows something happened so you have to lie in order to get a kingdom hall wedding.

    Looking back I know the first part of my adult life was effected by the severe control and suggestion, and I married very young as a result of the immense pressure that I felt. Eventually my wife and I fessed up to it along with some other things we'd carried all those years, I know it affected our relationship, living with guilt - reinforced by constant propagander from meetings. Its great to be free of that feeling now.

    CS 101

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