What kind of church did you find? Do you do charity work? It reminded me of another thing I love about my life. My charity work. I am a member of a pretty powerful "charitable" organization. They help women and children at the communal level (although sometimes on the national and international as well but the emphasis is helping locally). They even sent me (all expenses paid) to New Jersey last Fall to learn how to lobby at state and local government level on behalf of our service population.
So, in the organization:
Shut-in, shy recluse.
No charity other than selling people religious magazines.
Highly involved in charity and making the world a better place.
Healthy (spent my 20's in the organization, depressed and overweight!) Now, at 36, I have a great body and mental attitude (little yoga, lots of bellydancing, and meditation).
In a word: Happy