Yes, Becka it sounds like you've got a good relationship going, let him spoil you now. Tell me if I'm wrong, I bet I'm not. I guess everything I've said is a disguised way to say "treat em mean to keep em keen". It applies to both men and women. No one wants to be a door mat. You respect him. Demand respect in return.
Yup, with the exception of his JW-ness, it's definitely a good relationship. If letting him spoil me will keep him happy, then I guess that's what I'll do, I'll just have to get used to it.
Too bad I make such a good door-mat, I don't demand any respect at all, I just take what I can get. Like I said, I like to take care of other people, I don't really care what happens with me as long as everyone else is happy. But I do respect him in every way, and he shows me lots of respect, too, I don't have to ask for it. We're remarkably similar, personality-wise, we're both door-mats, so it works well.
So, I guess the next question is, how does a girl learn to be spoiled??