Actually, it is all uphill, for everyone. and the hills people choose to ascend are different for most people. sure enough though, it can indeed be a battle. For some it is easy. For most it is very difficult. Unfortunately, a few don't make it. Some people actually become very self destructive, or just as bad, go back to the witnesses.
anyhow, all of your doubts are very generic in nature, with all of the generic answers to them that the witnesses use. You sound like a recruiter for those on the fence or else are one who really is on the fence giving us your answers that the witnesses have fed you.
We all now have choices that we didnt have before. If you are just here looking for negatives then you of course will find them, even if we ourselves dont see them as negatives. Of course they do exist, you can find negatives in everything. Some people are sheep. Being a sheep is the best thing you can be as a JW, a goat is very bad for some reason (hard to train, hard to control, they like to do their own thing). I guess I am a goat. anybody from here like to tell us who the wolf is? haha.