My lovely JW sister just said this to her oldest son.
by FlyingHighNow 199 Replies latest members private
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Bangalore
What a horrible cult.
Bangalore
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2112
That is so harsh. I know so many people who say that JW's are just nice people who believe what they want to believe, blah blah, blah. It just showes how dangerous their religon truly is, it dresses up evil as rightesness. Trully wicked.
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Yan Bibiyan
This has to be about the most unnatural reaction of a mother towards her child. Animals have more "sense" hardwired into them when it comes to their offspring.
Cucking Fult!!!
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Gayle
She's running for JW "mother of the year." What a wonderful example. (spit) True loving mothers should represent "unconditional" love for their children.
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upnorth
There is not and never will be a reward for a relationship with a fully engulfed borg member
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FlyingHighNow
I am just stunned, but then not stunned by her reaction. She had him at 17 years old, 1968. She stood up to my parents and would not give him up for adoption. Fought for him all the way through. Fast forward to 2010 and she decides he's dead to her for telling her not to discuss politics, religion or try to play on his fears.
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flipper
FHN- My ex-wife who I was married to 19yrs. ( divorced 1998 ) is still a fanatic JW and she E-mails our son 25 ( an ex-JW inactive ) and constantly makes him feel guilty for not " coming back to Jehovah ! " and tries getting his sympathy by saying " I don't want to look around and see that you're not in the Paradise with me ! I'd be SO sad ! " . All this manipulative crap to make him feel 2 ft. small with guilt - allegedly. But he's smart enough to see her conniving manipulations.
What my current wife Mrs. Flipper and I try to do is build up my son's self esteem and commend him for all the GOOD qualities he has, encourage him in a positive way towards worthy goals HE has, and accept him unconditionally for the great qualities he has. You have a great opportunity here to do the same for your nephew ! ( Which I'm sure you do anyway . ) He definitely needs his aunty right now for sure. Keep close to him my friend- to lose a mother to a mind control cult is a deep pain I'm sure he always feels, never leaves him. I know it hurts my son about his mom shunning him- even though he doesn't talk about it much. Just keep the young man geared in a positive way ! Our hearts go out to you and him. Hang in there friend
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FlyingHighNow
Thanks, Flip. I am glad your son has you and your wife.
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Bittersweet2
Ouch.. my sympathies there.
Im... inactive I guess you'd call me, not disfellowshipped because I stopped going after my marriage to a (abusive) pioneer broke down completely after he cheated on me... I left him, was encouraged (read told) to go back to him and 'make it work'.. I didn't so I was shunned (although I had done nothing other than leave an abusive cheating bastard) and then finally I moved house and country. I now live with my boyfriend, so I really would be disfellowshipped if they knew where I was. (Last I heard they had disfellowshipped my ex because he moved 'her' in after I left.)
My family knows about my situation but they havent told the elders.. my grandfather actually IS an elder. He, my grandmother, my mother and my step dad all talk to me. But my brother, sister in law, aunt and uncle don't and won't.
I guess Im one of the lucky ones because I still have half my family and the other half never said horrid things to me they just cut me clean off. But I gained my bfs family anyway so Im good.
Anyway, pass my best on to your nephew even though I don't know him (or you tbh, Im new on here) you have my thoughts and sympathies there.