I explained the money situation and that was not good enough. Now I am being called out on not being sick enough.
I no longer feel I owe those who are attacking me an explanation, but I feel that those who are supporting me need to hear from me.
For the record, I contacted Scully directly and offered my home phone number and told her if she had questions to contact me. I also sent a copy of this pm to two other mods as proof of my willingness to settle this matter. I was told, and it was posted on the board by her that she refuses to contact me and chose instead to play an active role in attacking me in an open forum.
I was told straight out that any proof I would offer would be considerd:
- from my past cancer experience;
- a lie-meaning it was created in word or photoshop;
- or obtained from the internet.
My silence does not equal guilt.
I didn't read the responses to my thread. Would anyone, who was being attacked like I am?
What do I do or say now? There is nothing I can offer that will not be attacked and discredited.
This is my response to the accusation that I claimed to have stage IV cancer.
I never claimed that as I do not have that.
But I understand why my attackers were confused.
The type of cancer I am currently battling is from "rogue" cancer cells for lack of a better term.
I had breast cancer 10 years ago and a recurrence of breast cancer 2 years later.
If I were battling stage IV breast cancer, as is being suggested, I would have breast cancer that is spreading like wildfire throughout my system.
I do not have this.
What I have is tumors that have appeared in the various areas of my body that I listed in, I think, the breast cancer ribbon thread.
These tumors are made up of breast cancer cells as that was where my original cancer formed.
It is a serious situation for me as I have tumors in several areas of my body.
If I chose not to seek treatment, as that was my original decision, I most certainly would die from this.
I have since decided to fight my cancer, and even though I am choosing to seek treatment, there is no guarantee that I will live through this. There is just so much cancer in my system.
Also, a stage IV diagnosis is not an automatic death sentence. It is serious and a difficult battle. But, there are many people, and more and more as medical science devises new treatment options, more and more people are surviving stage IV cancer. Here is a story of one woman's survival of stage IV breast cancer.
http://fighting-breast-cancer.com/
Pancreatic cancer used to be an automatic death sentence as it is a very rapidly growing cancer. It is no longer an automatic death sentence as people are surviving this type of cancer as well.
Not all cancers follow a set pattern of behavior. There are no numbered steps that cancer must follow in order for it to be deemed "right".
I did not post very often about my cancer. There were some who, up until I posted about an upcoming surgery, had no idea.
I used this board as an escape from what I am facing. An outlet, I goofed off mostly, was the board smartass. Occassionally I would write something of substance.
I chose to use humor as my outlet and not constantly talk about and seek comfort, empathy, or pity for my situation. That's not me.
I expect that even this will not stop my attackers. But I do want to explain to those who are supporting and defending me.
Take care of yourselves and thank you.
Always,
Eryn