people you keep jumping to different subjects here.
vinny that was a nice post from solomon but I still stand by the point that with both OS and AS a woman may quite rightly want to refuse because they both can go beyond what she would want to do and be comfortable with and in fact a man may feel the same.
I originally disagreed with the original talker that a wt study he heard recently(as in last week) about os and as condemned it in married couples. I still think they wouldn't make that point anymore and aside no one has provided proof yet that it was mentioned in the actual talk that the original poster mentioned other than between unmarried couples as part of fornication acts. Like I said the inference is that these are considered wrong from being done while unmarried which is biblically correct the bible does not advocate sex between unmarried couples at all it is quite clear on that.
1 Corinthians 7:2 (New International Version)
2 But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband.
what the 78 and 83 wts make as points is it is a keep between husband and wife personal choice and agreement between them and the elders should not get involved unless approached about it. I'm pretty sure this is what an elder would say if asked 'it's between you two' these days as that is the point the 78 and 83 wt make on how it is viewed. I accept that until the thought changes the 83 viewpoint that they are 'perverted' but not 'pornea' stands but considering the context that it is between husband and wife to decide Personal choice is again the standing point.
As to the headship principle this again is biblical....
1 Corinthians 11:3
Now I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God.
if you don't agree with headship principle your disgreement is with God not the witnesses.
I think all points are covered for me the only new information is if the recent wt study that started this whole thread actually covered these publically between married couples not just unmarried is available.