Miss Worldly, I would like to add that as stated, the ONLY power the elders
have is the power you give them to control YOUR life.
As a single white male of the species, I have learnt that, FINALLY!!, and
am now happy and fulfilled in my life. Physically, Emotionally and Socially.
I have personally seen examples where bros and sis' have blossomed
when they stop succumbing to the guilt and power ascribing trip.
Best Regards to you
jtg