Well. my two bobs worth. At age 19 and a regular pioneer, I was told to get married
(elders prayerful advice) as it would solve my "self abuse" problem and my penchant for the opposite sex.
I did , as per stan livedeath. 14 years on, didn't solve either. Fortunately had no children.
I'm now a happy single male of the species.
And yess indeed @ 'the girl next door' Affirmative to the nth degree.
jtg