The principle of being balanced applies also to the matter of eulogizing the dead. At funeral services, Jehovah's Witnesses strive to comfort the bereaved. (2-Corinthians 1:3-5) A formal program may include one or more speakers. But it would be inappropriate to convert the occasion into a long parade of eulogizers extolling the deceased.
Wow! So in other words its inappropriate to go on about the person who's funeral it is in the first place...but its appropriate to convert the occasion (take advantage) to preach to people. Talk about controlling. I had asked my mom what music they had picked (a favorite song) but no...its a song from the songbook. Figures. I have to keep my to a minimum.
My concern is not for myself since I was never baptized but for my sibling who is inactive and is being shunned by my mom. Granted this funeral is out-of town in another state but with 2 relatives being elders etc etc I just really hope that they do not treat her like an outcast. I guess I'll see what true, geniune, unconditional love and compassion they'll show.
I appreciate everyone's imput on this. It just reverifies my feelings toward this organization which, in turn, helps me get my sibling out. If only my mother would open her mind and take the blinders off. It brings tears to my eyes as I write this. But, I know I've helped at least one person know "the real truth" and that puts a smile back on my face.
I thank Simon for this forum...and all who post here.