confused&alone, well done! I'm so glad you had a fun Halloween!
LisaRose, your husband is awesome!!!
gorgia
not sure if this is the right forum, if not i apologize.. last night was our first halloween.
i have to admit, the very idea that somehow it is satanic and that it makes bible god cry seemed immensely foolish as we prepared for it.
my daughter was dressed as an undead witch and my son was dressed as thomas the tank engine.
confused&alone, well done! I'm so glad you had a fun Halloween!
LisaRose, your husband is awesome!!!
gorgia
read this comment by bertrand russell:.
that man is the product of causes which had no prevision of the end they were achieving; that his origin, his growth, his hopes and fears, his loves and his beliefs, are but the outcome of accidental collocations of atoms; that no fire, no heroism, no intensity of thought or feeling, can preserve an individual life beyond the grave; that all the labours of the ages, all the devotion, all the inspiration, all the noonday brightness of human genius, are destined to extinction in the vast death of the solar system; and the whole temple of mans achievement must inevitably be buried beneath the debris of a universe in ruins all these things, if not quite beyond dispute, are yet so nearly certain, that no philosophy that rejects them can hope to stand.
only within the scaffolding of these truths, only on the firm foundation of unyielding despair, can the souls habitation henceforth be safely built.. .
Soft Determinism is at least a little comforting, however I don't know which is right - materialism/non-materialism. Its all very interesting reading though. Have you read W.T. Stace? If I really believed Hard Determinism I'd feel depressed too.
gorgia
http://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/jail-jehovahs-witness-elder-jonathan-6258814.
oct 31 2013. .
a jehovah's witness elder who was exposed as a paedophile on facebook has been jailed.. jonathan rose was branded a hypocrite as he was locked up for molesting two little girls he met through the church.. manchester crown court heard that rose, of new moston , won the trust of his victims families before targeting their daughters.
Thanks for posting this W-F. I hope many who are still JWs read this. More and more stories of the elders ostracising the victim and their families for speaking out are coming to public attention. I am so sorry for the these girls, but aren't they brave. An inspiration.
gorgia
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/blogs-ouch-24642553.
25 october 2013. colin hambrook is a poet and visual artist with mental health difficulties and me.
he runs disability arts online (dao) a web portal for disabled artists which reviews and showcases their work.. in hambrook's latest autobiographical project, knitting time, he recalls being brought up by a jehovah's witness mother who was mentally ill. she, hambrook and the other jehovah's witnesses they knew, believed that the world was due to end in 1975. this collection of illustrated poetry, and the accompanying art exhibition, explore the psychosis and grief he experienced as a result.. why did you call it knitting time?.
This artist seems to have fully accepted his illness, and is using his acceptance to help others. There is no sense of shame or guilt, which is wonderful. I'm sure this didn't happen overnight, but it is an inspiration to a lot of us who have experienced mental/emotion pain due to a JW upbringing. I wish him all the best with his book and exhibition.
gorgia
...to my boyfriend, we're going to have one of those weddings ('gay' weddings to the straights).. although my jw family know i'm gay, and not going to meetings, only one of my sisters has sussed the situation.
but i think after 3 years it's about time i told them.
especially if sometime in the future i'll turn up with a (gay) wedding ring.
Congratulations frogonmytoe.
gorgia
once you realize ttatt, how can anyone with half a brain, go back??.
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Great post. I've tried to ban myself from here during study for exams, but I miss you all!
I've heard quite a few ex-jdubs over the years say things like; 'I'll go back one day', with a kind of sad resignation. The last person who said this to me was a friend of my brother's. It was about a year ago, he was in his mid-thirties, born-in.
I was horrified and said, 'Oh please don't do that! You're just worshiping the Governing Body, you do realize that, don't you?' This guy looked at me and said, 'The who?'
gorgia
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if you're generally healthy and aged 17 and over you can donate blood.. apparently 96% of us rely on the 4% who do.. it is another milestone for me after leaving the cult.
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Amelia & cantleave,
That's awesome news!
gorgia
the policy set by pastor russell concerning disfellowship procedure wasn't changed until 1944?.
what was disfellowship policy?.
russell had recommended in a 1904 publication that each separate congregation (remember there was no organization back then!
Terry,
Thank you for this post. Every time I read your pieces I hope there are active JW lurkers reading them too.
'I think it's more about acceptance of an uncomfortable truth than it is about belief. Acceptance is far harder, in my experience.'
Vidiot - what a sentence! Thanks for sharing your experiences on here too.
gorgia
on this thread:.
http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/watchtower/beliefs/257481/1/i-cant-find-any-bibles-seems-to-be-a-shortage.
some (well, me, mostly) are speculating that the wts is planning to distribute a "new new world translation" some time soon.. if that is true, what changes do you think they would include?.
mP / hoser,
nothing before 1970!!!
gorgia
from radio biola to a sister who said you can treat autism and ptsd with scented oils, jws have had some weird some weird ideas about medicine.
what gems have you heard?.
Get baptised for guaranteed age-limit of 30 years for eternity.
gorgia