Let me tell you this; after you discover that it is YOU who is the normal person, after you weep at hearing those words, the cleansing is so empowering. It is an uplifting that no drug, sexual experience, surprise, gift, or accomplishment can rival! I wish you much peace of mind during your session, and constant happiness to follow! A friend of mine from another board uses the term "Therapy-Whore" which I have adopted. The most painful realization for me was that I was "Not a bad, rebellious young girl, but a NORMAL ADOLESCENT IN AN ABUSIVE HOME!" I broke down terribly at that weight lifting off of me. What a treasure that was to feel. I wish that loss of pain for you too. ((((((((((((((())))))))))))))))