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  "Jehovah clearly answered my prayer!"

  by stuckinarut2 in

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  so the fade is progressing well.... however, it has been noticed by the 'hounders', who i know will be "following up" with us soon i'm sure.. so i have thought of a way of shutting down the questions etc.... if they ask about things like meeting attendance and field activity, i am going to say something like:.

  "oh, thanks for your interest and concern brothers.

  this means a lot.

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  My wife learned a lesson early on. Our C.O. visited and she opened up to him somewhat. He gave her council and prayed with her. She didn’t attend his talk that week. He used his time on stage to talk about her. He classified her as more or less dead before Armageddon. One of her close friends phoned her and told her everything that she had said to the C.O had been repeated on the stage. She was livid and wrote the C.O telling him he hadn’t helped at all. He wrote back and apologized. From that time on she has used the phrase “I’m just don’t feel comfortable sharing my thoughts” which has worked very well for her. She’ll even repeat it if necessary. It’s her version of taking the Fifth.

  I use a different strategy. I make it clear I don’t have problems with local brothers or the local congregation. I’m not depressed or suffering from a guilty conscience. I have issues with the Watchtower…the Society…the Governing Body. Issues with their unapologetic and dismissive attitude toward the mistakes they made that affected people’s lives, that we now jokingly call “old light”. If they need examples I furnish them. There are plenty to choose from. But it’s batshit crazy WT history, not ‘apostasy’. So my phrase is “I have issues with the Watchtower”.

  JW.ORG and YouTube have opened up whole new dimension of reasons to longer trust their direction. Teepee’s, vehicles and fiddling in Assembly Hall lobbies, line dancing and teaching the hustle on the KH stage, while crowing about Jehovah blessing on all this. Promotional buttons, key chains, umbrellas and Frisbees. Even a video of ‘Psy’ dancing around Bethel to the tune of Pharrell Williams (Goggle his songs and lyrics, you may ‘cringe’… as one sister told me she did). I tell JW’s I’m shocked. I even rub it in a little. I’ve said it’s the only positive aspect of my parents both suffering from dementia. They didn’t get to see how far down-hill the brothers have gone.

  Because of family situations we are careful. We don’t hide our point of view but we don’t advertise it either. And we will never answer questions destined to df us.
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  Seeking support during confusing and stressful 'cognitive dissonance'

  by LHS123 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  sorry for the long post but i need help.

  ive been a jw for 20 years - still active and attending meetings, baptised at 18, i have recently become very dissillusioned.

  a few reasons: ill treatment of my kids by a prominent 'assembly speaker' elder, then my son left the truth at 15 (not baptised) and was 'dropped' instantly, despite this community having been his whole life for 15 years.

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  Sorry to hear about you situation LHS

  Keep in mind that truth does not change and cannot be challenged. ‘Real truth’ that is. Think about it. So keep reading anything you feel inclined to read. If “the truth” is ‘real truth’ it will stand up to any challenge, including apostate ideas. The fact that the GB forbids reading “apostate literature” and is against pursuing education is actually a waving red flag.

  Reciprocate the love of your loving and wonderful but 'worldly' family. And keep reading. Cultivate friendships with 'worldly' people. There are great people out there who God isn’t going to destroy. And keep reading. Look out for your kids. Love them. They are your most precious possession. And keep reading.

  Don’t take a month off cold turkey. But keep reading. Begin missing meetings and slow your service. Keep reading and you will eventually understand more and more of TTATT. It will take time, lots of time. Share your experience here. Take things slow. Its called fading. Take your time to think about how to do what you need to do. There is no rush. Armageddon isn’t coming tomorrow.

  The other option is ripping the Band-Aid off. Many regret having taken drastic measures too quickly. Unfortunately there isn’t often a ‘take 2’ option.

  Take care.

  “Wheels” – from a family completely destroyed by “the truth” with a mother who ruined her mental health following the WT’s disfellowshipping policy.
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  My best friend - Helping him wake up?

  by Garrett in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so, first off, after my learning ttatt i've been feeling so much better!

  my depression is gone, i'm so much more motivated, i can do everything i've always wanted to do but was forbidden from doing.

  now, my best friend is still in, however, i feel that he may have a chance at waking up.

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  I faded, but was always open about the reason. No personal grudges, no secret sin…just issues with the Watchtower. I don’t volunteer “to spill my issues” but I don’t refuse to share them either. I always joked about stuff like donation money, counting time, the rising number of anointed and the ever-stretching generation. Now JW.ORG is really cooperating. Recently I’ve commented on convention trinkets, the Mexican wave, JW.ORG’s Broadway effort and Sam’s new Rolex for JW.TV. I was thrilled when they did the Bethel “Happy” video (told some there was a positive side to dad having Alzheimer’s. He’s unable to grasp the Watchtower’s desperation). Carts have been good (told one JW “better dress well and not bring a coffee cup” so passerby’s don’t mistake you for a homeless person). Now they’re even better to mock ‘cause they “have a heart” and ‘sing’. I’ve tried Bible argument and humor. Humor is definitely more effective.

  Although some snubbed me completely, many are very pleasant when I meet them. I have discovered over time that some stay smiling with the hope of enticing me back. Others however, like myself, have big problems with the organization, are even open to talking or joking about them, but have managed to separate the organization from Jehovah. One commented recently “If it wasn’t for Jehovah I don’t think I’d still be a JW.”

  So go for it. Tell your friend you miss him. And see where it goes. Don’t renew your friendship with the goal of “taking him out” and things may work out.
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  Who is Gog of Magog? - Watchtower May 2015

  by jwleaks in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  here we go again... let's study... news report... comment.... who is gog of magog mentioned in the book of ezekiel?.

  for a number of years, our publications have explained that gog of magog is the name given to satan the devil after his ouster from heaven.

  this explanation was based on the fact that the book of revelation identifies satan the devil as the leader of the worldwide attack on gods people.

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  New JW video, song and dance

  by Listener in

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  the current jws do not cease to amaze.

  here's their latest video on youtube and straight from bethel.. there is a lot of work involved in this.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rwou6e5vwbo .

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  Looks like a remake of this:

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lzqQ4Stlxew 
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  I need a particular Watchtower photograph

  by ILoveTTATT in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hi everyone,.

  i would like to get a better copy of the watchtower november 15th 1916 copy, where there's a picture of the flowers and everything dedicated to russell when he died.. can someone get a good scan of that?.

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  Not the pic you asked for, but interesting book about Russell: The Laodicean Messenger , PDF available on archive.org

  Wheels
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  Hypocritical video on jw.org "what's a real friend."

  by stuckinarut2 in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  have you watched the 4 min animated white board drawing video on jw.org called "what's a real friend?".

  it is one of the most hypocritical pieces they have produced!.

  it goes into detail explaining that real friends "don't judge you, dont talk about you behind your back, don't hold grudges, don't expect you to conform, and encourage individuality!".

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  Hypocritical video on jw.org "what's a real friend."

  by stuckinarut2 in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  have you watched the 4 min animated white board drawing video on jw.org called "what's a real friend?".

  it is one of the most hypocritical pieces they have produced!.

  it goes into detail explaining that real friends "don't judge you, dont talk about you behind your back, don't hold grudges, don't expect you to conform, and encourage individuality!".

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  Undeniable proof the Organisation has Jehovah’s Blessing and Direction

  by wheelwithinwheel in

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  Social media strategy to expose JW molestation issues

  by JimmyPage in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  there are a lot of jws who will never hear about the molestation issues the wt has because all their friends on social media are fellow cult members.. what i'm going to attempt is to create a profile for an alter ego.

  it will have a profile pic and banner that says "jw.org" or some other pro-jw nonsense.. then i will attempt to befriend a jw.

  when one bites and accepts me the others will fall like dominoes and also accept my friendship.. at first i will post pro-jw things that will get me "likes", subscribers, and promotions in their news feed.. then i will lower the boom by posting the recent news video from the texas molestation story.

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  Do it JP. It works.

  Wheels