Dear Red Horse,
Absolutely, IN NO WAY, did I mean to infer that YOU were the one arguing. Look at the other posts! Everybody is arguing with Friend!!!!!!
Why? Because he infuriates us, belittles us and our arguments - and has made this a forum of his arguments. Don't think we don't want to join with you, but most everything you have said about the topic has been covered. He's baiting you and your rising to the challenge - as any good woman would.
Look at SC, he's quiet, just from pioneering, buys his wife an hour long massage, for Pete's sake - look at his new post!! A page long, angry response (done well) to Friend, who naturally responds to SC just like he does to you, 7, Frenchy, Spectrum, myself, and others to numerous to name (no harm meant by not naming).
Maybe Friend is not our friend at all........