Raven: you said " look at verse jesus words unless "anyone" verse 15 vesre 16 everyone verse 7 no it was not just him"
You wouldn't know Jesus' word unless John had written them down, and how do we know that they are fully accurate. The problem that I have is that it was a one to one conversation with Nicodemus, not his speaking to his disciples as a whole, or the crowd of 5000.
Why are people drawing their faith on a one to one conversation?
Even if Jesus said 'unless anyone', then it was not meant for everyone to know unless he said it in a way for everyone to hear.