Posts by gingerbread

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I can't take this crap anymore. It's time to get pro-active!

by BONEZZ in

ive been around this board for quite awhile.

it has helped immensely.

lately i just read everyone elses experiences and try and forget the whole nightmare...but i cant.

gingerbread

Divorce is one of the most difficult and painful things to go through during life. It's a death in the family without a person being buried. The real victims are always the children. And the process injures parents and grandparents. Perhaps your daughter is acting out. Is she mimicking behavior - of the religion or her parents? Divorce is the result of relationships without honesty, communication and often times passive / aggressive behavior.

If you want to continue the pain, trash your daughter in public (on YouTube...really??). My comments are meant to encourage honest communication between you and your daughter. Perhaps you're still hurting because of the failed marriage. Do you think your daughter is on your ex-wife's 'side'? Do you still want to 'fight' with your ex? Is it really your ex that you want to trash in public?

ginger

By the way, I was raised as a full blown JW, married out of obligation (because of the rules) and spent over a decade of my life miserable. Children came from this 'mirage'. I learned to act like an adult after the divorce. I took responsibility for myself and my relationship with my kids. It was much better for my children and myself when I learned to 'move on' from a failed marriage.

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I can't take this crap anymore. It's time to get pro-active!

by BONEZZ in

ive been around this board for quite awhile.

it has helped immensely.

lately i just read everyone elses experiences and try and forget the whole nightmare...but i cant.

gingerbread

You'll be punishing your daughter - in public ??

As wannaexit says "I hate this religion."

Your ex-wife has allowed the religion to destroy the natural relationship between father and daughter. Show your daughter that you're a better person than that.

Accept the fact that your daughter is an adult...and set the right example yourself.

Grow up and be a Dad to your only daughter.

ginger

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Apostles were first governing body????

by NeverKnew in

and paul was not a part of the governing body????

am i hearing this correctly or are these people making things up?.

gingerbread

Catholics (and other Christian denominations) believe in the first century 'Council of Jerusalem' or 'Apostolic Conference'. This group of older Christians debated on the issue of circumcision. Catholics date this council as convening in the year 50.

Jehovah's Witnesses have adapted the idea of a central council and applied it to the Governing Body in New York.

The difference :

The 1st century council decided on ONE issue concerning the Christian congregation.

The 21st century Governing Body dictates every aspect of an individual JW's thought, feelings, career, education, finances, entertainment, association, career choices, medical choices, family relationships and more...

ginger

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CHRISTIANS: Are we meant to identify the last days?

by Zoos in

i've been reading articles from ronald e. frye's, the christian respondent.

he puts forward this understanding of mark 13, mathew 24 and luke 21:.

(1) the destruction of jerusalem is set forth in graphic detail.

gingerbread

For the past 10 centuries, there is historic evidence of persons in the Western world who identified the time period they were living in as 'the last days' based on the writings of 1st century christians. It requires a 'parallel fulfillment' of prophecy.

This method of explaination of scripture produces a fundamentalist/literalist form of christianity.

ginger

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Did a householder at the door ever cause you doubts

by perfect1 in

recently on a saturday morning there was a knock on my door.

two ladies asked me if i was familiar with the jws.

i said: yes unfortunatley.

gingerbread

Growing up 'witnessing' in the rural southern US, most folks were very polite and listened. In fact they listened to their detriment.

JW's that moved from in the north ("to help where the need was greater") were overwelmed by the "amazing, positive response" they got at the door. Everyone invited you in to talk about the bible. Little did the newcomers understand that this was southern hospitality....and when you left the house, the 'householders' were trash talking you before you reached the car.

As an adult I began to doubt the 'work' that was being done. Pioneers who went out all week - driving around the county 'doing calls' - and never brought anyone to the Hall. My obligitory Saturday service morning was spent riding around in a car and at the local Hardees with a biscuit and coffee.

A sense of urgency? Not with me...or anyone else.

ginger

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Am I in a "cool hall " or what?

by ?me? in

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anybody else in the situation i am?

me and the wife go to a hall that is pretty "hands off".

i have not really been out in service for probably 1.5 years and my wife has went out maybe 3 times in the last year.

gingerbread

I walked the same tightrope as you for the past couple of years. Last spring the brother in charge of our 'service group' called for our time. He then qualified his question with 'not that you show up for service anymore'.

Now I don't report any service time (real or imagined).

ginger

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3 more branches closed?

by Viva la Vida in

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it seems the finland branch has taken over the work from estonia, latvia and lithuania (see http://www.jw.org/en/jehovahs-witnesses/offices/finland/).

gingerbread

You are correct Scotoma. Of course it all depends on the 'slice' of the statistics that are examined - especially in terms of percentage of gain.

For example, when a small country is cited in the Yearbook with publishers increasing from 12 to 24 over the previous year...oh my! They've had an increase of 100%. That's not such a 'big deal' when it's realized the the country's population is ten million.

In 1980 there was just over 2 million active JW's. Twenty years later the numbers jumped to 6 million. In the eyes of all of us active during those years, 'we' had grown beyond our wildest imagination. During that time the money was filling the contribution boxes and the push to build additional branches came with it.

From a personal perspective, I can only remember back to the time when Jehovah's Witnesses had 1 million publishers.

ginger

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Am I in a "cool hall " or what?

by ?me? in

jw
friends

anybody else in the situation i am?

me and the wife go to a hall that is pretty "hands off".

i have not really been out in service for probably 1.5 years and my wife has went out maybe 3 times in the last year.

gingerbread

?me?

I'm assuming that you still turn in a monthly service report - there's no way they would allow an inactive JW to work with an RBC. That's strictly against their 'rulebook'.

ginger

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What's in it for them? (GB)

by SyntaxError1974 in

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if the wbts is just another business?

then what do the gb get out of all this?.

tim cook (ceo apple) makes around 378 million a year.. donald trump makes around 60 million a year.. i understand the wbts may have vast property holdings, stocks, bonds, and revenue from donations.. but i can't grasp the incentive for the gb to make this stuff up.

gingerbread

Remember too that it is only through the direction and training of the anointed / GB that the 'great crowd' can received the paradisaic new world & everlasting life.

Now that's some power!

ginger

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3 more branches closed?

by Viva la Vida in

jw
friends

it seems the finland branch has taken over the work from estonia, latvia and lithuania (see http://www.jw.org/en/jehovahs-witnesses/offices/finland/).

gingerbread

When economic times are good the WT historically expands. When the world economy contracts, the WT (like any other international company) will downsize/streamline.

I suspect the expansion of facilities and 'staff' in the 80's and 90's was also induced by emotions. The JW membership was growing like crazy (compared to the previous 50 years) and the big cheeses saw this as a sign from heaven to get big, big, BIG...

A circuit overseer expressed to us (about 8 years ago) that the organization was "now more than ever" being run like a business. They began paying particular attention to the "balance sheet".

ginger