Hi there kabwell,
"Has anyone looked at the local churches in their area and seen pagan and freemason symbols both inside and outside."
Freemasonry has actually adopted many Christian symbols over the centuries. For example:
The Cross and Crown (Used in the early days of the Bible students)
Eye of Providence (Comes from the time of the renaissance representing the trinity)
That is also why there is a Bible on the altar of most masonic lodges.
Why do "Christians" wear a symbol of torture and death?
The symbol of the naked cross indicates the triumph of Jesus over death. That is why it is depicted as being empty. It therefore primarily serves as a symbol of victory and not of torture.
Most world religions have a Mary and child type god so this is just another pagan part of mainstream Christianity.
The veneration of a female deity is as you pointed out very old. One has to remember that the Bible is also full of this type of imagery. In Revelations the Bride of Christ and the woman giving birth in the desert features strongly and has given the impetus to Christianity for its usage.
Would any Christian give away everything to someone in need as Jesus did?
Some have I guess.