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  Being an Orphan Hurts No Matter What Age

  by WhoLovesMagic in

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  what kind of parents forget the day you were born?

  jehovah's witness(es)!!!.

  yes today is my 3rd birthday (only started celebrating 3 years ago).

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  happy@last

  Glad you had a happy birthday. Do you know it's odd, my mum hasn't called me on my last 2 birthdays since I faded, yet she did previously.
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  Curious About My Disfellowshipping.

  by vajeni82 in

  1. watchtower
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  i recently read an interesting thread (is there a 'third' way to leave?

  ) that talked about fading instead of being df'd or da'd.

  i myself had planned to fade, but was df'd instead.

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  happy@last

  If it was me I'd call up and ask. It sounds as though you were accused of something, and by simply not going to your JC they assumed this meant you were guilty of whatever it was you were accused of.
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  jw's view of wordly people - hipocrisy

  by spirituk in

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  i was wondering how a baptised jw see wordly people?

  i mean what do they think of people who arent jw ?

  do they think we will die forever and that we are controlled by satan?

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  happy@last

  When I was a JW, I felt sorry for 'worldy' people as I thought they were walking aimlessly with no purpose. I had 'worldly' friends but never preached to them if they didn't take any bait, i didn't want them to die for refusing to listen to the 'good news'.
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  Will you attend the Memorial this year? Why? Why not?

  by Open mind in

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  happy@last

  No, last year I went after I'd startedcto fade, hated every second of it, was the last time I was in a KH, I won't be going this year. My wife invited me, I said if I went it would only be to please people I have nothing to do with, so should I go? She understood. It will be just like any other night for me.
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  Happy belated b day to me: 30 years old on Feb 16th.

  by Joliette in

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  thought the world was gonna end between 2000 and 2010. can't believe its still here.

  been on jwn for almost three year now.

  damn it feels like heaven on earth to be an apostate!

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  happy@last

  Happy birthday (plus 3 days), have fun in your 30's
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  How to tell family why you are no longer attending meetings?

  by El_Guapo in

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  2. friends

  so it has been over a month, maybe closer to two that i haven't attended a meeting.

  my stress level has gone way down, and my life is pretty good right now.

  well as you know, there are tons of nosy witnessess.

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  happy@last

  Why not tell her for your physical health? Or even for your mental health?
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  I Got disfellowshiped..wana die!

  by Chichi89 in

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  i jus got dissfellowshiped at th last week..i feel like dying..i attended th meetings yesterday and ita ws jus horrible..came back home in tears....... people i used to cal my friends nw cant look me in the eye..so heartbroken confused and giving up on life !.

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  happy@last

  ChiChi89, first of all, welcome here, this is a friendly place, stay a while.

  Second, please see this as an opportunity, a time for a breather to re-evaluate all the rules and regulations you have been living under. Take time to research what you believe, and see if you can re-connect with some of your 'wordly' friends.

  You do not state whether you are in education, working, have family etc.. Assess what you DO have, not what you don't for the moment.
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  Flawed Heroes

  by jgnat in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  being the inquiring sort, i've read deeper in to the past of some of my heroes, and found....flaws.

  it shakes me up.

  i wonder; is my hero worth emulating?

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  happy@last

  Everyone who makes it through today despite adversity is a hero. The trouble is, putting someone on a pedestal doesn't change the fact they are still human and may have had words of wisdom some days, they sure would have had failings other days.
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  verybelated intro: Tylin

  by Tylinbrando in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so i have been a lurker on this forum since its inception.

  i registered over a year ago.

  i jumped in several months back with a highly controversial subject of my daughter being sexually abused by an elder and the efforts we were taking to bring him to justice.

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  happy@last

  Hi Tylin, thank you for sharing part of your life story with us. I wish you and your family all the happiness you deserve. We cannot erase the past, but we can make each day count, and it sounds you are well on your way to doing that.
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  district assembly programme---oooh i wish

  by bigmac in

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  happy@last

  Haha, and it's the same material worldwide, ROFL